If I work harder, I’ll be more successful. And if I’m more successful, then I’ll be happier.
Recognize that thought? Maybe you do, maybe you don’t. But even if you don’t, you might want to read on. Because this is what most schools, companies, our family and pretty much most of life teach us. So chances are it’s buried deep in your mind anyway.
And this creates the following mathematical problem: if our happiness is on the other side of success, our brain never gets to happiness. Every time we hit a goal, we set another higher or bigger or further one. Which makes us forever happy in the future and never now.
So we need a different equation. Read more…





